This is in memory of "Mary". I am sorry I could not do much to help you. You and your family put your trust into this aged care facility. You were failed.
Introduction: I would like to introduce you to an experienced Registered Nurse's (RN) account of working in a fully accredited and licensed Australian nursing home. With over twenty years of experience in nursing, including Emergency Departments of Australian hospitals, medical and surgical nursing, the RN also had qualifications in Training and as an Assessor.
The RN unfortunately, must remain anonymous until public and industry opinion takes a more charitable turn towards "feedback" and whistle-blowers. Let's call the RN "Peter". All real names and details have been changed to protect the author, whose name has been withheld and forgotten. This article illustrates one of the reasons why many good staff leave aged care. Names and some details have been changed to protect the author.